Recently I read this fantastic book that changed my perception of my actions on a day-to-day basis. “Atomic Habits” by James Clear establishes how our goals don’t define us but rather the systems that are put into place for us to achieve the goals. Both unsuccessful and successful people have the same goals, maybe they want to become healthier, become more financially stable, become more social etc. However, what determines the likelihood of achieving goals is the system that has been put into place in order to achieve these goals.
Clear states that we “Your goal is your desired outcome. Your system is the collection of daily habits that will get you there.” emphasizing the importance of the process of getting to your desired outcomes. How does this look on a practical level? well let’s say that you want to read more books this year and give yourself a goal of reading ten books. Now you have to set up daily routines that facilitate and synergize this desired outcome. Clear suggests that we make cues for the habit as available as possible. In this scenario that can look like having the book you want to read always be visible to you either on a coffee table or on your bed, that way when you are more likely to stick with your habit as you will often find the cue (the book) when visually orienting yourself to the room that you are in.
It is also imperative that you make the act or habit that you are trying to stick to as enjoyable as possible. This can be done in a multitude of ways such as pairing something that you want to do but don’t enjoy that much with something that you want to do and enjoy a lot. This habit pairing is extremely beneficial and is a system that leads to sustaining the habit that you want to establish. Let’s now go back to the reading example, you might find the act of reading quite insurmountable and bitterly annoying. But say you really enjoy drinking coffee in the morning, you can set up a system where as you sip your coffee, you read a few pages, slowly paring the reward of drinking coffee with the act of reading. And slowly once you establish one of these pairings, you can add other actions as well like meditating after reading etc. These systems complement each other and provide the necessary momentum for sustenance and success.
Initially when we are trying to lay down the ground work for the habits that we are trying to implement, we are energized by a burst of motivation. You see a new year rolling around and decide that you are going to be a better version of yourself this year. You buy yourself a gym membership, new running shoes, new books or courses and stick with it for about 2 weeks. And then slowly lethargy creeps up on you from the crevices of your life. One missed day leads to multiple and slowly the motivation dies, leaving the action suffocated. Clear provides a simple solution to keep building the habits that you want. He suggests that we create a “Two minute version” of the habits that we want. This system allows the action to be very simple and require low activation energy. This could look like setting yourself up to read for two minutes. Once you do that you will find it more and more difficult to stop doing the action, further enforcing a system that values progress over perfection.
“You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems.” is a quote that I live by now as it has allowed me a seamless and fluid pursuit towards individual betterment. I can’t regurgitate the value and power of the ideas in this book enough. Pick it up and I promise you won’t regret it.
Stay Golden,
Mashrur Kazi
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